DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married a long time. Our relationship is stable but rocky. I have suffered from depression since childhood, and I am now trying to manage it. My husband has his own issues. One of them is that he often brings up something he finds “amusing” about my parents. For example, he mocks my dad and the home I grew up in because it wasn’t fancy. This is hurtful.
I don’t appreciate my husband bringing up Dad’s quirks to belittle him. When I say I don’t appreciate it, he starts yelling and telling me that he’s not trying to hurt me and that I shouldn’t take it that way. Then he goes off and sulks and won’t speak to me for the rest of the day.
His behavior is getting old. It ruins things between us. If you tell someone that what they say is …