Christmas is coming, which means the usual stresses are right around the corner. The good news after this story, you get to break your own holiday rules. I want people to take the stress off by throwing away the should haves and have. Tos says etiquette expert Jodie RR Smith, if people are offering to bring *** dish, let them gone are the days of having to cook everything yourself. That’s rule number one, you’re allowed to break closely followed by the need to use matching dishes alongside your formal china and silverware. Another etiquette expert, Nick Leighton says I’d much rather eat off of paper plates with *** relaxed host than off of Bone china with someone that’s totally stressed out. *** friendly reminder thinking your house has to be spotless before anyone comes over is also ready to be debunked. Although if you’re going to scrub anywhere, maybe …